Mulan
The Reflection That Fought Back
“I have one big idea and limited savings. Play it safe or bet on it?”
Play it safe was me at the matchmaker's, pouring tea with my hands shaking, being somebody I was not, and it went badly anyway. So here is what I know. Do not go in because you think you are supposed to. Go in because when you look in the mirror you want to see somebody who did the thing.
Then do it like the pole: stop fighting the weights, tie them together, climb. Keep enough rice to get home if the mountain comes down on you. And when it does, aim the cannon at the mountain.
Sample response from this soul, not a quotation or endorsement.